Sure we all set goals, but if the foundation to achieve those goals is not solid, the goals go unrealized, often year after year. A goal not worked for is simply a wish. So, how can you realize what foundation is necessary in order to stop wishing and actually achieve your goals? There are many ways, but my favorite way is to create a tree. It can simply be a drawing, or you can get creative and use scraps of colorful paper to create your own tree. This tree represents your life. Through your daily actions you will create a strong healthy vibrant flowering tree, or a wind blown, shriveled up, gnarled tree, you choose…:)
Part seven: Fill in the blossoms - Now back to the blossoms, remember your list of goals? Write each goal on a blossom, along with your deadline for that specific goal. If you wrote patience on one of your blossoms, how will you achieve that patience? For me that is often some form of exercise. So I may write patience on a blossom and "because I ran today" in parentheses.
Part eight: Evaluate: Do your blossoms have strong roots and fertile soil? - Now it is time to evaluate and see if your blossoms have strong roots to support them, and fertile soil to nurture that blossom. For example, while winning the lottery is not really a recommended goal, it illustrates my point well. If on a blossom you have written "to win the lottery", but down in the soil you don't buy lotto tickets, then your soil conditions are not conducive to this goal. You either need to be realistic and change this goal to something more achievable, or change the conditions of the soil. If your goal is "to go on pointe", then down in the soil should be the condition "doing core work 5 days a week outside of ballet class". If you have chosen not to do the work, re-evaluate your goal, knowing it may not be an achievable one. > Now give yourself a big orange sun in the corner of your tree picture, with the sun representing your attitude. A sunny attitude shines down upon all that you do, and helps your tree to flourish. Step back and take a look at the beautiful tree you have created. Remember though, that the tree and roots needs to be constantly watered, and of course the soil needs tilling now and then. Dead foliage need to be raked away so that fresh leaves and blossoms may appear. That means coming back and re-evaluating the growth, and asking " is my soil still fertile"? "Does my tree receive constant sunshine"? "Does the tree need anything else that I had not considered before"? "Am I doing the actual work to keep my goals realistic, or am I simply wishing? Keep returning to your tree, assessing it's growth, making changes when necessary, and your tree will grow strong and vibrant. Happy gardening!